Here's another procrastination tip adapted from The Now Habit. If you're procrastinating on starting or finishing an assignment, you're probably afraid that working on the assignment will be painful.
But consider this. Not working on the assignment is also painful. Procrastination hurts. While there is a pay-off in that you get to do something you'd rather do than the dreaded assignment, it still hurts. You can't really enjoy the other activity because you feel guilty that you are not working on the assignment. Meanwhile, as the minutes or hours tick away, your anxiety increases as you add the fear that you won't get the job done to whatever fears you had before.
The trick is to accept that there are no good alternatives.
Procrastinators often hope that if they wait long enough, a solution will magically arise that will enable them to complete the dreaded task without any pain or to avoid it forever without any consequences. Unfortunately, that rarely happens.
Once you accept that your choice is between two painful options -- the pain of continuing to procrastinate and the pain of starting or finishing the dreaded task -- then a real solution becomes available. Simply pick the painful option that will have the most long-term benefits. Almost always,, that will be the option of doing the work.
Accepting there are no good choices is oddly liberating.
Wednesday, July 1, 2015
Tuesday, June 30, 2015
If you're avoiding starting a task, try this. Visualize completing the task early, and imagine how good it will feel to work at a leisurely (or at least not a frantic) pace. Contrast that with feeling panicked when you are trying to get something in under the wire.
Really take in how good it will feel to work in a more relaxed state. Imagine, as vividly as possible, sitting at your desk and writing while feeling calm, relaxed, and productive. Imagine how being relaxed will allow your thinking to effortlessly sharpen, and imagine how the right words will flow from your fingers.
Think about how starting now will give you so much more time to work on the project.
Visualize submitting your task and not feeling exhausted, with plenty of energy left to do something rewarding because you didn't burn off all of your energy in an adrenaline-fueled frenzy.
Visualize again the luxury of having extra time to work slowly and calmly and how that luxury is abundantly available to you if you start working right now.
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Thursday, June 25, 2015
I'm not endorsing these, just listing them. If you have any experience with any of them, please share in the comments below.
ArticleBunny -- This is a new pay-per-word site. Easy application process -- just take a quick grammar test. I see a few things that may be red flags there, so proceed with caution.
front page / writer info & application
Blasting News -- Started in Europe and is now going worldwide. Pay is according to the number of unique views an article receives in the first 30 days after publication. For example, according to their slider (on the front page, under the "compensation" link), they pay 8 euros, which is equivalent to $8.96, for 1,000 unique page views. No application process -- just register.
StringLancer -- Revenue-share site. Splits ad revenue 50/50 with writers. They sent an email blast to former Helium.com writers, and in some ways the site looks like it wants to be another Helium. StringLancer is also plugging itself as a free portfolio site. No application process -- just register.
front page / register
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
Ziggywiggy Sent Oogleboogle a Fillyfolly... or a painless way to learn the basics of sentence structure
How to Identify the Parts of a Sentence -- a brief and painless introduction
I'm a big believer in the value of learning about grammar. You can go far as a writer on instinct and intuition, but at some point, you need to be able to take a left-brain analytical approach to sentence structure if you want to effectively edit your own work.
The foundational first step is to learn how to identify the parts of a sentence. If, like me, you were myseriously absent the day that was taught in school, or if you had dozed off, or if your hippie-ish teachers preferred dissecting novels to talking about grammar, then you've got a hole in your brain where this basic knowledge should be.
But it's not too late to learn about grammar now. And who knows, you might even enjoy it. It's worth keeping an open mind. Some subjects that are deadly dull to children can be fascinating to adults.
There are only three things you need to do to succeed as a freelance writer:
1. Produce good-enough writing. This includes writing clearly and grammatically; having subject-matter expertise and/or good research skills; and being flexible enough to adapt to different clients' requirements and styles.
2. Demonstrate good-enough customer service skills. When writing for content sites where you never meet clients in person and all contact is via online messages or (rarely) phone calls, this can be as simple as refraining from acting like a jerk.
3. Meet deadlines.
The third one is my Achilles' heel. Missing deadlines is my fatal flaw as a freelance writer. My writing skills, I believe, are good. My customer-service skills are fine. But being late on assignments is killing my reputation and, therefore, my opportunities.
The culprit -- the evil, leering villain behind the clock that is ticking away -- is procrastination.
I finally hit what felt like rock bottom last week.
In my previous post, I mentioned that there is a huge range of per-word rates paid to freelance writers, from a small fraction of a penny on the low end up to a couple of dollars or more per word on the high end.
Then I started wondering if this was useful information, or if it was better not to think about it.
I'm of two minds on this. Actually three.
Sometimes, when I hear that other writers are making 10, 20, or 50 times more than what I am making, I see it as an opportunity to raise my income by learning to do what they are doing.
Other times, I feel that it's not possible for me to increase my freelance writing income that much, and that by dwelling on the differences in pay, I will only be breeding jealousy, resentment, and frustration.
And still other times, I remember that years ago, I was so taken by this sentence that I read in the book Spontaneous Happiness by Andrew Weil that I copied it down, adding it to my collection of quotes that I try to live by:
The source of human unhappiness is our habit of comparing our experience to others and finding our reality to be wanting.What do you think? Is it better sometimes not to know things or at least not to think about them -- or is more knowledge always a good thing? Does reading about writers who may make a lot more than you do inspire you or make you feel frustrated?
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|Image adapted from photo by Roman Oleinik|
The difference between the high and low end of freelance writing pay is staggering.
Pay rates range from less than one cent per word to more than $2.00 per word. Someone at the high end of the scale may be making 500 times more than someone at the low end.
Is it possible to move up? If not all the way to the top, at least part of the way?